bicycles.

“Every time I see an adult on a bicycle, I no longer despair for the future of the human race.”

~H.G.Wells~

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Freedom. Like being a kid again, just pedalling, going wherever I wish…

Somehow whenever I push off on a bike ride, I just feel a flood of happiness. That feeling of being able to go anywhere, on my own steam. It’s wonderful to me.

Judging by the number of people out riding bicycles on any given day with even half-decent weather, I think it’s safe to say I’m not the only one who feels this way. I suspect there are more of us cycling this spring because of COVID-19 keeping kids out of school, and lots of adults home from work.

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Honestly, that’s part of the beauty of a bicycle; this sweet  sense of independence. Without interpersonal contact (COVID), without a team, a gym, a schedule, or a ball, I can just get out and go for miles. I can go as fast or as slow as I like, start and stop as often as I want to, and it just feels so good.

“Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.” 

~Albert Einstein~

By the way, my bike was a birthday gift from my husband several years ago. It’s got to be one of the best presents of all time. How many happy hours has it given me? And I live in hope that it will help me build some muscles on my thighs one of these days. It’s got to- right?

So blessed,

Leah

this man of mine.

I love him. Can’t help it; he’s a lovable guy. His name is Kirby, and I’ve been married to him for almost 24 years…

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This is us out for our first bike ride of the season, yesterday. It was his birthday! After he finished his work (at home, thank you COVID-19) we couldn’t wait to get out and cycle for a while in the warm spring sunshine. It was the warmest day of the year so far; so nice for his special day. I say that with a wee tinge of jealousy; on my birthday, just a couple weeks ago, the temperature ranged between about -4 and +5 degrees celsius. But my jealousy is the nice kind; I wouldn’t have the weather on his birthday be any worse. I just wouldn’t have complained if mine had felt a bit more like spring.

So back to our bike ride. Kirby suggested that I ride ahead of him, since I am not especially athletic, and therefore a slow rider. He was nice enough to not put it quite like that when he offered to keep behind me. Being considerate enough to cycle at my pace is a little thing that says a lot about the kind of guy he is.

He also has a great sense of humour; this is one of the first things that attracted me to him back in the day. He’s a talented and innovative teacher, and has a way of connecting really well with older kids and teens that seems like an inborn superpower to me. (I specialize in babies and very small children.) Kirby also has a knack for technology. This is something else I really appreciate; he just laughs when I say that the printer and the remote controls etc behave better when he comes in to help me with them, but I know in my heart that it’s true.

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Again, it’s my intention to make my blessings blog posts as relatable as possible. I do realize I’m the only person who has this strong and sweet husband, but so many of us have people in our lives who love us and are always there- for better or for worse. It’s sometimes easy to get used to these loved ones; almost a form of hedonic adaptation… I’m writing to remind myself, and my dear readers, how good we really have it.

So blessed,

Leah 

Hayley.

Today I’m feeling especially grateful for my nieces; in particular, this one!

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A couple years ago in an airport, as a complete stranger walked by us, she smilingly commented, “Well, that’s not a mother and daughter, is it!” She meant it as an ironic statement of the obvious, but Hayley and I laughed because it’s not the first time she’s been mistaken for my child.

We have a lot more in common than our colouring though. We’re both avid readers, with a special taste for historical fiction. We both enjoy knitting, and cooking, yoga, and family history research. And we’re both nature lovers, so we like taking walks together when we get the chance.

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So blessed,

Leah 

sunshine for my soul.

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I’ve never been one to go to a gym. Never in my life, ever, have I driven to a gym and paid for a membership, or even a one-time use. This is not only because I’m not especially athletic or co-ordinated. There are other reasons; mainly that I couldn’t be bothered, to be honest.

But then, last summer, we moved to a condo with a nice gym (including a salt-water pool, hot tub, and steam rooms) downstairs. At first we felt sometimes like we lived in a hotel. And when we stay in a hotel, we generally find we can work up the motivation to make our way down to enjoy the facilities. So, naturally, we signed up for gym memberships. And it’s been great. All through the long, dark, cold winter (we live in Alberta, Canada- not commonly celebrated for balmy temperatures) we’ve exercised. More than ever before.

Now, of course, the gym is closed, like most other things. Thank you, COVID-19.

Thankfully, it’s spring. Our version of spring involves a lot of snow, ice, and sub-zero temperatures, but I’ll take what I can get. The sun shines longer and longer every day. And sometimes, like today, the temperatures are above freezing, and the snow and ice are melting. There’s mud!

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And I’m so grateful that the beautiful Bow River is just outside. I can decide to look past the thick (gradually melting) ice on the riverbanks, and notice instead the gorgeous glacial colour of the water.

I took these photos just before writing this little post for you, and I’m aware that not everyone has lots of nature right outside their door. While I want to be real and specific about the blessings I appreciate from day to day in my real life, I don’t ever want anyone to feel sad if you don’t have the same good things to cheer your hearts as well. This really matters to me. So that’s why I titled this, ‘sunshine for my soul’. Because whoever you are, and wherever you live, the sun is always up there above us in the sky. Even when there are clouds in the way, and we can’t really see it shining in a blue sky, it’s there. That’s how we can see anything at all.

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Yesterday I wore fuzzy mittens on my walk, and today my hands were bare. Tomorrow, there is snow in the forecast yet again. But, look- see the sun on the water? It was there today, and I felt it bright on my face, and warm on my hands.

So blessed,

Leah